tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3990638317848377135.post7045911117231050086..comments2023-04-07T10:36:26.455-04:00Comments on Will they have his eyes?: A poll, of sortsMaria (MKC101103)http://www.blogger.com/profile/14960882099749643440noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3990638317848377135.post-67222917853717685732009-05-17T13:50:00.000-04:002009-05-17T13:50:00.000-04:00I just read your ho hum post!!! That is bizarre! ...I just read your ho hum post!!! That is bizarre! I hope that is a sign from the universe!!!! PLEASE LET THIS BE THE ONE.<br /><br />Next time I am in Philly I will email you - I did not know you lived there - I would love to meet!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3990638317848377135.post-84907224839610906912009-05-12T21:01:00.000-04:002009-05-12T21:01:00.000-04:00M - I too think you are amazing no matter what. A...M - I too think you are amazing no matter what. And what an amazing thing for you to think of doing. I used to get tied up in the genetics. This process has totally changed my outlook. You may think about the eggs/the resulting children the rest of your life but you also may think about giving them the ability to live and be part of a family, which is a beautiful thing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3990638317848377135.post-13899054687721303522009-05-12T19:32:00.000-04:002009-05-12T19:32:00.000-04:00Are you planning to keep a couple for yourself and...Are you planning to keep a couple for yourself and donate the rest? Or are you just interested in donating to help others? Depending on your plans, I think it could be a win-win situation for you & Ed as well as another couple desperately wanting a child, or a completely selfless act as you can empathize with other women struggling with IF.<br /><br />I have absolutely no real advice tonight since I'm out of words for the day, if I think of anything else, I'll let you know. Either way, I think you're amazing.Kristin (kekis)https://www.blogger.com/profile/14063547563759813530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3990638317848377135.post-90725033542233044902009-05-12T15:57:00.000-04:002009-05-12T15:57:00.000-04:00Mike and I have talked about this if we end up on ...Mike and I have talked about this if we end up on that route. So these thoughts are "my thoughts not in the situation", they might change if I'm in the situation. I would want to donate them. I know how much it sucks to struggle with IF and know that my eggs might help some couple that couldn't produce their own. <br /><br />But the flip side is that somewhere out there would be a child running around that is half yours biologically (this is the reason Mike didn't like the idea). I would probably always wonder about them. But I wouldn't want them destroyed. It's a tough decision. <br /><br />I hope that God gives you guidance during your decision process and know that I support you with whatever you decide.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04769356492606351481noreply@blogger.com